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What is Bondage and how to Practice it?



Bondage is a French word that means servitude. It is a specific type of fetish, usually related to sadomasochism, where the main source of pleasure is to tie and immobilize your partner or involved person . It may or may not involve the practice of penetrative sex.

Bondage is an erotic bandage applied to a partner who is dressed, half-naked or naked in order to practice domination. It is related to the use of ropes, ties, chains or handcuffs during sexual relations. One of the partners immobilizes the other before the sexual act itself (sometimes it is only preliminary). This physical restriction allows having total control of a person. The dominant one has that special flavor of ordering and performing acts that he probably wouldn't normally do in a traditional relationship.

Handcuffs for wrists or ankles, collars, ropes, tethers, chains and a series of other more "advanced" accessories provide the submissive with the pleasure of being exploited and sexually controlled, in addition to influencing the visual impact of the moment.

It can be a perversion or just a joke of the couple to change the routine and spice up the relationship. There are practitioners who see bondage as an aesthetic issue, exploring new ways to tie and immobilize their partner. BDSM practitioners (bondage, domination, sadism and masochism) warn that practices should be healthy, safe and consensual.

The truth is that this will depend strictly on you and on what you find exciting. For many people, in fact for most, taking on the role of dominating your partner from time to time is extremely enjoyable, and a hard sex session does no harm to anyone. But bondage can range from the simplest gesture of tying your partner's arms or hands to the most complex, using ropes that are sold especially for this purpose.

Some bondage practitioners also cover the partner's eyes. Apparently, the risk involved with immobilization provides intense pleasure. Lack of vision, which for many is related to helplessness, can stimulate the other senses, giving different sensations. And the moment a person loses one of their senses, all the others are sharpened. The submissive person is enveloped in an unknown sensation and enters a stage of tension and expectation.

If you don't know if your partner likes the idea of this type of sex, it is best to consult him first, otherwise you may be surprised. Now if you are aware that it is a great fantasy, then start from the simplest, and if you both like it later, go to the most complex.

For example, one night you can present yourself in handcuffs, this will surely make the other one "on alert" just by imagining how exciting this can be. After the partner is handcuffed, you can take them to their peak of pleasure at any time by stimulating all their erogenous zones. If you both enjoy this experience, then you can evaluate the possibility of acquiring a more complex kit.

To practice bondage (the simplest type, just as a fetish for couples) you need handcuffs or a scarf to tie your partner.

If you are a woman, you can choose an erotic lingerie or sensual fantasy to stimulate your partner through vision. A blindfold or scarf so you don't see anything will increase eroticism. Sex toys can also be used while your partner is tied up to stimulate you to a climax. Don't forget to use a good lubricant if you want to play with a vibrator.

Bondage doesn't necessarily have to lead to an extreme masochistic experience if you don't want to. In a fetishistic relationship, this aspect is greatly explored through sensory and physical restriction, as well as the exchange of power.  The advantages of an erotic game of this kind are much more intense pleasures and new sensations as it is only a matter of stimulating sex life through some erotic fantasies that you will surely enjoy as you experience the extreme of pleasure.

So leave the taboos aside and open yourself up to the opportunity to arrest your partner and stimulate them until he reaches the climax. In any case, there is no right or wrong about sex, only what gives pleasure or not. Experience the pleasure of dominating your partner and knowing how far your limits go.

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